Finding Impact No.29💥

How conversations can change your life

Hey Friends,

Conversation can change your life.

I've come to this realisation recently. And so did Theodore Zeldin in his book Conversation: How Talk Can Change Our Lives which I've been dipping into.

I haven't made much time for random conversations in the past. I'm always trying to be productive, to do a good job in my career and achieve my goals. I always think: there's just no time!

But I've realised I'm missing the magic that comes from conversations with new people.

You see, as a consultant, I sell my time. This puts me in the mindset of time blocking, task management, deep work and endless other productivity hacks.

So when I'd get a request by someone to 'pick my brain’ I'd initially scorn at the idea. I defaulted to the ‘not having the time’ position (and sorry if you're reading this and that was you!)

But after a few of these calls, I realised I enjoyed them and I get so much out of them.

Here's what I've realised about some of the benefits from a random conversation:

  • You get to see your experience be of value to others;

  • You can practice your coaching skills;

  • Explaining things to a new person triggers new ideas and insights;

  • You get feedback on how you explain things, which makes you a better communicator;

  • You get advice and motivation from others who are trying to achieve the same things as you are but who are just slightly ahead of you on their journey.

I now keep 5pm GMT every day open for conversation. So, I would love to hear from you. Hit ‘reply’ to schedule a conversation with me or ping me at It's good to talk!


Thanks to all those who gave me feedback on my last newsletter. If you're interested, the most popular article was:

On a COVID-19 vaccine

To top the news of a Biden win, we were greeted with the possibility of an imminent COVID-19 vaccine. Let's not celebrate too soon, Dr Atul Gawande says. The longest queue in history will be waiting, and it won't be on a first-come-first-served basis. The distribution and logistical costs alone will be astronomical. Get a reality check here.

Dr. Atul Gawande on COVID-19: ‘It’s never too late to save another 100,000 lives’

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Randy Pausch Last Lecture: Achieving Your Childhood Dreams via YouTube

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